As one of the stars of MTV's top-rated reality show ''Jersey Shore'', Jenni Jwoww Farley has spent the last few seasons dating, mating and making mischief on the sandy beaches of Seaside Heights, Miami and Italy with her housemates. Among its millions of fans, Jenni has become famous for both her cleavage-baring tops and her tough-as-nails approach to life and love: I am like a praying mantis, after I have sex with a guy I will rip their heads off. She's brutally honest, spontaneous, the ultimate party girl - and wherever she goes, drama is sure to follow. But under her tough exterior there is a softer side that makes her the resident big sister on the show. Her housemates turn to her for advice because she tells it like it is - and she is fiercely loyal to her friends and wants to see them happy. In this modern girl's guide to dating - infused with ''Jersey Shore'' attitude and never-before-shared anecdotes, Jenni shares what she has learned about men, sex, smack-downs, and standing up for yourself. The book recounts some of her wildest moments on ''Jersey Shore'' as well as her past relationships - the good, the bad, and the gorillas.