What is the one quality that all successful people
have in common? They have mastered the art of dealing
with people! Let this book show you how to: Achieve your
goals Handle the human ego Become a master
conversationalist Make others feel good about themselves
And much more! Skill with people is the one essential
ingredient for success and happiness at home and in
business. "The Art of Dealing With People" gives you the
skills to take your people skills to a level that you
never thought possible! Skill in human relations is
similar to skill in any other field, in that success
depends on understanding and mastering certain basic
general principles. You must not only know what to do,
but why you're doing it. As far as basic principles are
concerned, people are all the same. Yet each individual
person you meet is different. If you attempted to learn
some gimmick to deal successfully with each separate
individual you met, you would be face with a hopeless
task. Influencing people is an art, not a gimmick. When
you apply gimmicks in a superficial, mechanical manner,
you go through the same motions as the person who "has a
way," but it doesn't work for you. The purpose of this
book is to give you knowledge based upon an
understanding of human nature: why people act the way
they do. The methods presented in this book have been
tested on thousands of people who have attended my human
relations seminars. They are not just my pet ideas of
how you should deal with people, but ideas that have
stood the test of how you must deal with people. That
is, if you want to get along with them and get what you
want at the same time. Yes, we all want success and
happiness. And the day is long past, if it ever existed,
when you could achieve these goals by forcing people to
give you what you want. And begging is no better, for no
one has respect for, or any desire to help, the person
who constantly kowtows and literally goes around with
his hand out, begging other people to like him. The one
successful way to get the things you want from life is
to acquire skill in dealing with people. Read on and you
will learn how.
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