Shining in the Shadows is a practical guide for all competitive Moms, but particularly newer Dance Moms! Simple advice from a real, ordinary Dance Mom. These tips and tricks are designed to help you enjoy the journey of competitive dance with your son or daughter, and save money along the way! There is no sensationalism, exaggeration or drama. Just the facts! I am sure many other Dance Moms, could add others as well, but these are the ones that have worked for us. This book was born from a practical conversation with my recently graduated daughter. One chilly morning as we crossed the skywalk to the competition, we were discussing the end of our competitive dance journey as Mother and Dancer. The conversation inevitably led us to realize that we were just figuring it all out as the experience of 12 years was coming to a close. "If I had only known then...." Now you will know my tips, and figure out many of your own, to allow you to Shine in the Shadows and enjoy the ride! Don't blink! It ends far too soon!